Being a nerdy gamer girl, I tend to have more guy friends then gal friends. This is pretty normal in the realm of NerdLand. There are some awesome benefits to having gamer guy friends:
- They don’t care if you don’t look perfect. You don’t have to have the latest fashions on, or your makeup just perfect to hang out with your guy friends. They aren’t comparing if you look better in that outfit then they did or etc. Granted, every girl should look her best, but they don’t care if you don’t every once in a while.
- You can be blatantly honest with them and they won’t read into what you said. There are no “secret” or “hidden” meanings in things when you are honest with them. They don’t try to “read between the lines” like women do.
- You can finally make all those jokes that you can’t make with girls. Such as joking about the size of your “Deck” of WoW or Magic Cards. All those funny innuendo jokes that you have been saving for years are suddenly cool now! Or you can say things like “he, he, he said hard” and stupid dick and fart style jokes.
- They have sturdy shoulders. You can cry on their shoulders and they can deal with it. They might try to solve the problem, but most times they just let you cry.
- They typically don’t sleep much. This is good when you have insomnia and need to talk to someone because you can’t sleep! Because, guess what? They are awake too and mostly gaming, so you can game with someone!
- Guys are typically, “what you see is what you get”. In a world of trying to be someone else, or poserdom, this is refreshing. I think this is probably the best of all the benefits, because I can just let my guard down and be myself as well, it’s not always that easy with women.
- If you have kiddos, like I do, gamer guy friends make great “uncles”. The gamer guy friends that I have are all “uncles” to my two girls and will laugh and play with them as well. They don’t treat my kids like a nuisance, and they take the time to game with them as well.
- Guy friends make you laugh. Let’s face it girls, sometimes you need a good laugh and watching them act like animals or slap boxing each other is funny! Plus, sometimes, they say the funniest things. (or make inappropriate gummy bear scenes)
So, if you have have some great gamer guys in your life, make sure to thank them! So Ryan, Wes, Richard, Tiki, Tim, Dan, Brian, Craig, DJ, Coby, Nate, Alex, Jason, Vern, Brett & Solomon: Thanks for keeping it real and real funny!
If there are benefits that I missed, please let me know and I will add them!















